Tips for Being in a Relationship with a Cancer

Cancer like its ruling planet, the Moon, is known for their caring and nurturing side. But, a cancer does not fall fast in the idea of love. Often, they are skeptical. It takes them a lot of time to trust. If they want someone, after careful analyzing, and they know their feelings are right, they would go after that person in an instant. On the contrary, when someone is luring them out, they would normally pause and drive that person away. At times, they have a nasty way of self-defence.

When their guard is down, you can find a soft spot for a Cancerian. They are very caring and generous lovers. They always have the notion of a perfect romance. Once they love you, expect to be treated like a queen or a king. They would do everything to make each moment with their partner a memorable one.

One thing that you have to watch out for, however, is their high temperament. They are very moody and easily get angry even with the slightest of things. It is important their partner understands their every mood swings and are forgiving for their misbehaviours.

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Positive Traits Of Cancer Lover

Cancer is one of the most loyal of the zodiac sign. They are passionate, loyal, and very responsive in love. They see to it that things are always in order even when it comes to their love life. They are strong and independent-minded people, but can be emotionally clingy.

They are supportive of whatever their partners dreams, talents, or lives may be and would do everything to help out and nurture what they have. They have that special power to make others feel good and they are always sensitive to the needs of their partner. Cancers, likewise, are the most loyal lovers among the 12 zodiac signs.

Negative Traits of Cancer Lover

Cancer has a good memory. Often, when in a heated argument, they would bring out their partners faults. They are also moody, and have a high temperament. They can be sweet one time, and get mad at one thing the next time. Ironically, what their mad at are petty things. They are overly sensitive and gets hurt easily. Cancer takes a long time trusting someone, especially when it comes to their opposite sex. But, once you win their heart, they can be the best among your best friends or lover. They, however, the tendency to demand love back. 

How To Attract An Cancer

The biggest concern a cancer have in a relationship is trust. To attract a cancer, you must win their friendship first. They do not trust easily, so you have to show them your sincerity. Building their trust can be hard and takes time, so never force them into one thing they do not want. 

Listen to them. That's one thing they are attracted of.  Don't just listen though, but actively listen.  They love to tell stories, and tell their day dreams and ambitions in life. They like live conversations, and those with great sense of humour.

Someone who is as caring, understanding, and supportive like them is someone that could sweep them of their feet. They are attracted to someone who is very sensual and loving. They love being appreciated and are attracted to thoughtful persons. They don't mind being martyrs in love so long as their partner is loyal to them. If you break your promise, be ready that your cancer lover could be your worst enemy.

Don'ts with an Cancer

Cancer is very sensitive. Don't do anything they don't like or they are sensitive to. Once they fix their mind on something, you may talk about it with them, but never argue with them upfront. They would be defensive about it and would feel disrespected.

Never play with their emotions. They are very true and sincere to their words, and they look forward to someone who never theirs too. They don't also like controlling and manipulative persons. They always want to be in control of their lives. In fact, they want to be the one followed instead.

Lastly, never disregard something they find very important even the smallest of things, like a souvenir or the pettiest of things like a plane ticket. Also, don't disregard their feelings. They rarely show their sensual side, so once they do; they expect their partner to be responsive.

What Cancer Needs From Their Relationship

Cancer needs someone who is trustworthy and as loyal as they are. They don't like to play games and are never the type to play games or toy with someone emotion. They long for security in love and would prefer long engagement and lasting relationships.

They also need a relationship full of understanding. They can be emotional and moody at times, but it is only one of their witty ways to get attention and feel that they are being loved. They can be tactful, but a forgiving partner is always that wins their heart.

They also like to weight things, which is why they need a relationship with an open mind. They love to change their mind. A partner who can accept their vast and wild mind is someone they need in their lives. Cancer is very observant and intelligent. They can sense if your intentions are genuine. You can never fool them. A relationship build in truthfulness, stability, and pure love is what they need most. They want someone without any hidden agenda.

Also, they need a relationship full of variety. They don't like to stick on doing the same thing. They love having fun and adventure. They also like spending quality time over great dinner and beautiful scenery. Something that is romantic to do is what they need in a relationship.

Cancer is very loyal and loving partners. They need someone who can understand their sensitive side, and can go along their unexpected side. Mostly, they long for a relationship that is lasting and secure. 

Jordan Canon
Spiritual Advisor
Free-Spiritual-Guidance.com